So you’ve hit that point.
The “this ain’t it” moment.
That job? Draining.
That relationship? Unaligned.
That routine? Stale.
And suddenly, you’re staring at your life like, “How did I end up here… again?”
Let me tell you something soft and true:
The moment you realize you’re no longer okay with where you are—is holy.
🧭 Pivoting Is Not Quitting
Starting over isn’t a failure.
It’s a declaration:
“I’m no longer available for what no longer serves me.”
But pivoting without a plan? That’s how we burn out, spiral, or get stuck in the same cycle—just in a cuter outfit.
So here’s your Pivot Plan: part clarity, part coaching, part courage.
🛠️ The Pivot Plan in 3 Steps:
1. Re-center: Return to Your Values
Ask: What actually matters to me now?
(Not five years ago. Not on Instagram. Now.)
📝 Try this:
Make a list of your Top 5 Core Values (e.g., peace, creativity, flexibility, stability, freedom)
Then ask: Is my life in alignment with these values?
2. Reframe: Redefine the Narrative
Stop saying:
“I wasted time.”
Start saying:
“I learned what doesn’t align—and that’s wisdom.”
Affirm this:
“Every step taught me something. I take the lesson, not the shame.”
3. Realign: Small Shifts, Not Drastic Leaps
Pivoting doesn’t always mean blowing up your life.
Sometimes it means:
- Applying to one new job a week
- Saying no to one energy vampire
- Starting that side hustle in 20-minute pockets
Micro-moves = macro transformation.
💡 Journal This:
- What version of me am I shedding?
- What does my aligned life feel like (not just look like)?
- What’s one small shift I can make this week?
💬 Final Word
You’re not flaky.
You’re not confused.
You’re evolving.
And sometimes evolution requires a pivot—a sacred pause where you say:
“This chapter taught me, but it’s not my final one.”
So pivot, baby.
Softly. Boldly. Without apology.
Your future self will thank you.
With clarity and courage,
Coach G
@ProvokeChange
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