Fear will have you stuck in places you’ve outgrown. It’ll make you question if you’re good enough, smart enough, worthy enough — and if you let it, it’ll convince you that playing small is protection. But chiiiile, at some point… you’ve got to want it more than you fear it. That healing? You’ve got to want it more than the comfort of staying broken. That purpose? You’ve got to want it more than the fear of being seen. That freedom? You’ve got to want it more than the trauma that taught you to survive instead of thrive.
Here’s the truth: fear doesn’t just disappear. It doesn’t politely exit your body when you pray for change. Fear is loud. It’s layered. And it will try to come with you into every new season you step into. But growth doesn’t mean fear disappears — it means you move with it, through it, and sometimes in spite of it. There’s a version of you who already has what you’re praying for, but she only exists on the other side of obedience. She only shows up when you stop negotiating with your potential and start walking like your name is on the next level.
You can’t keep feeding fear with your time, your excuses, your “what ifs.” You’ve got to get to a place where you fear staying the same more than you fear starting over. Where you fear living a life of “almosts” and “I was gonna’s” more than you fear failing. You’ve got to look at fear and say, “Baby, I hear you — but you’re not driving today.” Because the cost of letting fear run the show is too high. You’ll miss the timing, the opportunity, the healing, the love, the breakthrough that was already yours… all because fear said “wait” when God said “go.”
Let me make it personal — I’ve been there. Stuck in my head. Paralyzed by doubt. Making excuses that sounded holy but were really rooted in fear. Telling myself I needed more time, more clarity, more confidence. But what I really needed? More faith. More follow-through. More fire behind my prayers. When I finally snapped out of it, I realized: the only thing standing between me and the next chapter was my fear of fully stepping in. So I stopped waiting to be unafraid — and I started choosing to be unshakable.
And now it’s your turn. Not to be fearless, but to be faithful. Not to be perfect, but to be present. Not to have all the answers, but to stop running from the ones you already know. You’ve got to want your healing, your next level, your peace, your purpose… more than you fear what it takes to get there. That’s how you change your life.
✍🏾 Journal Prompt
- Where is fear still making decisions in my life?
- What would I do differently if I chose courage over comfort?
- What’s one thing I can do today that future me will thank me for?
💛 Affirmation
I want healing more than I want comfort.
I want purpose more than I want safety.
I want breakthrough more than I want familiar.
I am no longer making fear my home.
🙏🏾 Prayer
God, help me want the life You’ve designed for me more than I want the safety of my past.
Silence the fear that keeps me playing small.
Teach me to trust Your voice above my doubt.
Give me the courage to move, even when I’m scared.
Help me walk in boldness, knowing that my next level doesn’t require perfection — just obedience.
Amen.
With love, truth, and the kind of grace that doesn’t sugarcoat,
– Coach G 💛
Keep becoming. Keep choosing you.
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