Chiiiile… let me tell you something: you can pray all day, manifest until your throat is dry, and shout about your “next season,” but if your mindset is still small, none of it’s gonna stick. Success starts in your head long before it shows up in your hands. And that’s the Tea & Truth for today.
Research backs it up too — Dr. Carol Dweck’s study on mindset found that students with a growth mindset (believing their abilities could improve) outperformed students with a fixed mindset by up to 20% in GPA gains. Translation? How you think about yourself shapes what you can achieve. If you keep telling yourself, “I’ll never change, I’ll never get better, this is just who I am,” you’re building walls around your own potential. But if you shift to, “I can grow, I can learn, I can improve,” you’re opening the door to levels you didn’t even know were possible.
Now here’s the raw truth: too many of us are praying for success but still thinking like failure. We’re asking God for abundance while holding onto scarcity. We want the spotlight but keep hiding in the shadows. Sis, you can’t step into greater with a poverty mindset, an insecure mindset, or a fearful mindset. Greater requires a shift — from “What if I fail?” to “What if I grow through this?”
Mindset is not magic. It’s not a snap-your-fingers fix. It’s daily work. It’s catching yourself when that negative self-talk tries to slide in and choosing to rewrite the story. It’s refusing to settle for old patterns of thought and instead practicing new ones until they become your norm. And here’s the beautiful thing — when your mind shifts, your life shifts. You’ll start seeing opportunities where you used to see obstacles. You’ll start walking with confidence instead of hesitation. Because success doesn’t start with resources, connections, or luck — it starts with how you think.
✍🏾 Journal Prompt:
- Do I currently operate from a fixed mindset or a growth mindset?
- What is one area of my life where I need to reframe my thinking?
- What limiting belief can I start replacing with truth today?
💛 Affirmation:
My mind is fertile ground for growth.
I release limiting beliefs and embrace the possibility of improvement.
I choose a growth mindset that aligns with my vision and God’s plan for me.
🙏🏾 Prayer:
Father, thank You for giving me the power to renew my mind daily. Help me release thoughts that limit me and embrace beliefs that empower me. Teach me to recognize when I’m holding onto a fixed mindset and give me the courage to shift toward growth. Let my thoughts align with Your truth so that my life reflects Your abundance. In Jesus’ name, amen.
With love, truth, and the kind of grace that doesn’t sugarcoat,
– Coach G 💛
Keep becoming. Keep choosing you.
Chiiiile, Please! 
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